The 15 most important minutes of a Soccer Game?… They come AFTER the final whistle.
Here are 4 reasons why a youth soccer coachโs Post-Game Team Talk will be the most important talk theyโll give each week:
๐ญ. ๐๐โ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ง๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ป๐๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป ๐ณ๐ฟ๐ผ๐บ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ป๐ณ๐ถ๐ป๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ฎ๐บ๐ฒ
A game has a final result, but it also marks the beginning of the next weekโs work.
The Post-Match talk shifts focus from what just happened to what comes next, revealing new growth and opportunities.
๐ฎ. ๐๐โ๐ ๐ช๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐ฌ๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฃ๐น๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ฉ๐๐น๐ป๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ
After a tough loss, how you treat your players at their lowest defines your leadership.
They need empathy, belief in their potential, and guidance to get back on track.
Your response holds their self-confidence in your hands.
๐ฏ. ๐๐ ๐ฃ๐ฟ๐ผ๐๐ถ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฆ๐ฝ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ โ๐๐๐น๐๐๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฅ๐ฒ๐ฝ๐โ
A “culture rep” involves meeting vulnerability with support and empowerment.
Whether you win or lose, reinforcing your culture during this time strengthens the team and keeps everyone aligned.
๐ฐ. ๐๐โ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐จ๐น๐๐ถ๐บ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ ๐ง๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ด๐ผ ๐๐. ๐๐๐บ๐ถ๐น๐ถ๐๐
Post-game emotions run high.
A Developer leads with humility, using the talk to build up their players.
A Non-Developer, driven by ego, blames others and derails development.
Final Words…
The 15 minutes after a game are a bridge to next weekโs work. Regardless of the result, we must guide our players with conviction and motivate them for the next step in their journey.